Friday, 20 August 2010

Whats the point in "Fronting"

Fronting - A facade. Appearing one way, but really acting another. Misrepresnting yourself. 


I have never really seen the point in fronting, although I am a hypocrite because I've done it several times before. I see so many examples of it and so many uses of it but I still dont understand why its used. For example theres been times when a friend has said to me "you like her bare, your on her" and I will front and say "not even, ive got other chick" when i know that im lying to myself and my friend is actually telling the truth, yet i cant be a man and admit to it. With me, it might just be the kind of friends that I have, because it aint easy to openly say "I like her alot" when your friends are black rif-raf males. Besides the kind of scenario that I used people use it in other ways but its actually silly, because at the end of the day your just lying to yourself as well as others. You can pretend not to feel nothing or act like something but why do it if you truly know thats not what you feel or who you are. Fair enough its not always easy to say what you really feel and have a slight fear of what could happen or how people will perceive you but its not worth "fronting". 


From now onwards im just going to be honest to myself and to others and if that means someone saying "ohhhh you miss her" then im not going to act, i will simply say if i do. I know so many people that do it and its something that can make a situation worse instead of making it better. If people cant take you for what you feel or are then there not worth it but you should not have to front to be there friend. Whether your a boy or girl whether its about money or a relationship, fronting is just not necessary to be honest. If you front all the time then your just fake and the person your fake to is yourself. If you need some anti-fronting inspiration then i would recommend Pharell Ft Jay - Z - Fronting. The realer you act, the realer the people around you.  


Rhe

The first blog

I never understood the use of a blog, but it was barely just 10 mintures ago where my friend inspired me to make one as it is a place where I can express how I feel and express my opinions. My life can be hectic and maybe releasing my thoughts down in writing is the best thing to do really, although I dont wish to express to much and look like some soppy guy. Theres some things I dont know how to share with my friends and I think releasing your feelings and thoughts into writing is the most ideal way to share what goes on in your head. With my recent exam results and college starting soon, my mind will begin to wonder alot so joining blogger at this time was a wise thing to do. I can also finally release some thoughts about other silly things and the major major major topic of females that can cause grief to me. I look forward to publish more very soon, as for now this is my first blog.

Rhe